Summer Slowdown: Why Rest Is Productive
- Chantel Windy
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Written By: Dr. Chantel Windy
In a world that celebrates hustle, rest often feels like a radical act. We’re taught to equate busyness with value, productivity with success, and exhaustion with commitment. But what if we’ve gotten it backwards?
Summer, with its longer days and slower rhythms, invites us to pause. To breathe. To step off the treadmill — even if just for a moment — and consider how we’re really doing. And when we allow ourselves that pause, we often discover just how deeply we’ve needed it.
Rest Isn’t a Reward — It’s a Requirement
One of the biggest mental health misconceptions is that rest is something we earn. After finishing the to-do list. After hitting a goal. After checking every box.
But here’s the truth: rest is a biological and psychological necessity. Your nervous system, your brain, your muscles, your creativity — all rely on cycles of rest to recover and function well. Without rest, we burn out. We disconnect. We lose our ability to emotionally regulate. The cost of skipping rest is far higher than most of us realize.
Research shows that chronic stress and lack of rest are directly tied to anxiety, depression, emotional numbness, and physical health issues. Conversely, making time for consistent rest can boost emotional resilience, improve focus, and help regulate mood and sleep.
Summer as a Natural Pause Point
Nature has seasons, and we are no different. While some people see summer as the time to go-go-go, others naturally experience it as a season of reflection and restoration.
Children are often out of school, work schedules may loosen, and daylight stretches a bit longer — creating natural openings for rest if we choose to accept them. Even the warmth encourages our bodies to move more slowly, to nap, to spend long afternoons doing “nothing.”
Instead of pushing against that rhythm, consider what it might feel like to work with it.
What would it look like to allow summer to be a reset for your nervous system?
To slow down not out of avoidance, but out of care?
To rest not as a failure to produce, but as an intentional act of wellness?
What Does Rest Really Mean?
Rest isn’t always sleep (though good sleep is foundational). Rest can look like:
Taking a real lunch break without your phone
Saying no to social obligations that feel draining
Letting yourself read for pleasure
Spending a few hours unplugged from devices
Sitting outside in silence
Napping when your body says it’s time
It’s not about checking out from life — it’s about checking back in with yourself. Rest helps restore your energy so that when you do reengage with your life, you can do so from a grounded, regulated place.
Let Go of the Guilt
For many people, the idea of rest brings up discomfort. Guilt. Shame. Anxiety. That’s completely normal — especially if you were raised to believe your worth is tied to what you do, produce, or achieve.
But healing often starts by giving yourself permission to do things differently. To unlearn what no longer serves you. To choose peace over pressure.
In therapy, we often talk about the difference between survival and intentional living. Rest is what allows us to shift out of constant survival mode and into something more sustainable — more rooted in who we are and what we need.
If you struggle to slow down, you’re not alone. Therapy can help you explore the roots of burnout, unlearn toxic productivity, and begin to build a life that honors your nervous system. Let’s start your slowdown — together.